So on my recent trip to Manila, Philippines
I found myself stressed out and worried. Why? Because of transport. I had read
that public transport in Manila is basically a no-go, and that it is better for
tourists to use taxis (which are very cheap) and factor in lots of time going places due the
crazy traffic.
So I was aware and prepared for this.
However, after just one day I had established that despite the taxi’s being
cheap, I was either being ripped off by them not using the meter, or I was
being taken wherever the driver wanted when the meter was being used. Also in
the evening it was difficult to get a taxi, and I had to stand alone on
the side of the street and pray I wouldn’t be attacked while I waited, and also
pray that whenever a taxi showed up that the taxi driver wouldn’t rip me off
too much.
As a lone traveler, the overpriced taxi fares started to add up to not actually
that cheap anymore. Since they all speak English, I also hated making small
talk with them. By the time my last day came around, I was too worried about
arguing fares, having to wait for a taxi home, and making more dreaded
small talk that I just stayed in the hostel all day.
But now I have learned something. I have
learned that while travelling alone, I would actually prefer to use public
transport, where the prices are fixed and I don’t have to argue about fares or
deal with people or worry about where I might end up. If I get lost I can look
at a map and try figure it out, or I can ask someone at the station. My safety
could still be at risk, especially regarding pickpocketing etc, but I would be
vigilant. It requires more planning on my part, but I am in control of the
situation.
This is one of the factors why I will not
be going to Siem Reap in Cambodia – I don’t think I could handle being ripped
off or arguing with a driver all day, or constantly worrying about my safety.
Some people can handle it, but not me. It’s neither relaxing not enjoyable and
given the choice, I would rather not do it again. In a group this would be different,
but alone I just can’t handle the stress. So from now on I will check the
availability of public transport in an area before travelling.